We Are Your Best Friends, Baby

As you know, Mark and I have been great friends since we were 11 years old. Our marriage is really friendship set on fire. We get to enjoy being lovers and best friends. Having Taziana is like having a new member to this friendship. It used to be just me and Mark rolling the streets…

Surrendering My Husband

I surrendered my husband. The hardest yet most comforting thing God asked me to do in our marriage is to surrender my husband to Him. Last week, we were supposed to celebrate our 3rd year of marriage. That didn’t happen. I had to surrender my husband ON that special day. Mark and I don’t fight…

I’m Ready For You | Preparing for Fatherhood

As time goes by, I am starting to see Mark as a man who seeks the best for his family rather than a young dad who struggles turning back from his past life but made it. That was him, but he really has grown now. “I am not ready. We are not ready”, that’s Mark’s…

Our Marriage Battle Plan

 “Because I am pissed.  I am so pissed at you” I answered Mark in the ugliest tone I could just so he knows that I am really upset. Finding time for our marriage was not easy this week. I start working on business at 5:30 am and end working a part time job at 5:30…

Devo Dates, Rating Our Marriage, Sex

If you follow me on Instagram, you’ve probably seen snippets of our weekly devo nights. If you don’t, it’s okay! I’ll still tell you about it. Hehe! So, what are devo dates and what do we usually do during devo dates? Every week, when we can’t afford the time and luxury to attend our couple’s…

What We Did To Deserve This | His Love and Our Faith & Obedience

My disobedience led me having to face responsibilities and hardships in my life a lot earlier and harder than expected (paraphrase). But despite that, God’s love led me here. To this beautiful family. For a while during my walk with the Lord, I have learned that obedience brings blessings. And it does. But I have…

He Is Charmed By Me | Keeping My Husband Attracted

Ooops oops opps! Let us not get ahead of ourselves. I believe that no amount of effort, beauty, or good character will be able to keep a man who does not want to be kept. If a person wants to wander, he/she will wander. That has nothing to do with us, that speaks more about…

Freeing Myself | A Slave to a Relationship

When I was 16, I was in a dark place. I hid myself inside a toxic relationship. Before I continue writing this, I want to clear out a few things first. One, this was seven years ago and I am sure a lot of good changes happened to both me and my ex boyfriend. Two,…

Lies About My Husband | Speaking Truth Above Circumstances

Maybe he doesn’t love me as much anymore. Maybe our relationship is turning pale pink from bright red. Maybe I deserve better than him. Maybe he’s not really the one. Maybe he finds other girls more attractive than you. Maybe a time will come when he will finally leave you. These thoughts haunted me for…