Lies About My Husband | Speaking Truth Above Circumstances

Maybe he doesn’t love me as much anymore. Maybe our relationship is turning pale pink from bright red. Maybe I deserve better than him. Maybe he’s not really the one. Maybe he finds other girls more attractive than you. Maybe a time will come when he will finally leave you. These thoughts haunted me for…

Own Up For The Pain You’ve Caused Me

After a couple of uncalled disagreements and misunderstandings with Mark, we have come to a conclusion: something is different, something has changed. Trials and challenges aren’t harder but they have become more stressful. Even a simple misunderstanding between chores, or a feeling of offense towards wrong use of tone has led to unnecessary pain and…

My Testimony: The Story of My Pregnancy

The first part of this post has been copied and pasted from my previous personal blog. It was pusblished back in September 6 2015, just 6 days before Taziana was born. I am re uploading it here and making a second part which is 2 years from when the first part was written. I want…

The Beauty in Jealousy

I was once this teenage girl who misused jealousy. I had a boyfriend when I was younger and I had this very bad habit of checking his phone, all his social media accounts, his comment threads, posts he likes, people he interacts with, who sits with him in class… and if it involves one girl-…

My Only Guy Best Friend, His Only Girl Best Friend

Mark and I have been great friends since we were 11 years old. We bonded and shared our lives with each other in a beautiful level. This friendship, then, grew into an intimate relationship. We fell in love. I fell in love with my best friend. However, I have also always been “one of the…

This Isn’t Me; A Very Sad Mom

“This isn’t me” I told myself a couple of times as I stared into the mirror. This isn’t me. How did I get this bad? What happened to me? From the fifth month of pregnancy until our daughter turned a year & two months old, I have been a house mom. I personally would say…

My Marriage is My First Fellowship

When Mark and I tell others that we are married, one of the most common reactions is amusement followed by a question, “It must be really fun to live together, right?” We answer with “mmm-yeaaa…”. Don’t get me wrong, marrying my best friend is one of the biggest blessings of my life! Coming home to…

For Better, But Not For Worse

When I first fell in love with Mark, he was everything I ever prayed for and even more. He was gentle, full of efforts, loving, honest, genuine, very sweet. He made me smile and goes the extra mile day by day. That is who my husband is. And he remains this way most of the…

Life Update: The Blog is Back!

Heyyy, guys! It has been a while! Or it hasn’t. We’ve probably stayed connected through facebook. Last week I have asked many of you for your opinion on bringing the blog back because it comes with both pro’s and con’s. The opinions were almost split in half, which gave way for us to see both…

Knowing Love: GUARDING YOUR HEART, GUARDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP

It seems like temptations are there wherever we go. How do we guard our relationship? Why should we even bother guarding our hearts? This day, lots of relationships end because of third party, it is the cause of many broken marriages and families. When your heart is guarded, your relationship is guarded. After all, a…